fix(borrow): improve confirmation UX — proactive focus and longer timeout

The borrow confirmation overlay was easily missed because the Agent
Window stole focus and the 5-second auto-deny was too aggressive for
users who had context-switched away.

- Focus the user window proactively when a borrow request is issued so
  the overlay is immediately visible even when the Agent Window was
  last focused.
- Raise CONFIRMATION_TIMEOUT_MS from 5 s to 60 s, giving users enough
  time to notice and respond — the OS notification with
  requireInteraction: true now has a matching window of usefulness.

Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>

apps/extension/src/content/__tests__/BorrowConfirmationOverlay.test.tsx

@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@ describe("BorrowConfirmationOverlay", () => {
             id: "req-1",
             isActiveTab: true,
             tabTitle: "Example",
-            timeoutMs: 5000,
+            timeoutMs: 60_000,
             onAllow,
             onDeny,
           },
@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@ describe("BorrowConfirmationOverlay", () => {
     );
 
     expect(screen.getByText("允许借用标签页？")).toBeTruthy();
-    for (let i = 0; i < 5; i++) {
+    for (let i = 0; i < 60; i++) {
       await act(async () => {
         await vi.advanceTimersByTimeAsync(1000);
       });
@@ -66,7 +66,7 @@ describe("BorrowConfirmationOverlay", () => {
             id: "req-fallback",
             isActiveTab: true,
             tabTitle: "Example",
-            timeoutMs: 5000,
+            timeoutMs: 60_000,
             onAllow,
             onDeny,
           },
@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@ describe("BorrowConfirmationOverlay", () => {
       />,
     );
 
-    for (let i = 0; i < 5; i++) {
+    for (let i = 0; i < 60; i++) {
       await act(async () => {
         await vi.advanceTimersByTimeAsync(1000);
       });